మీ గర్ల్ ఫ్రెండ్ మిమ్మల్ని వదిలి వెళ్ళకూడదు అంటే ఈ 10 పనులు చేయండి   10 Things To Do, If You Want Your Girlfriend To Stay Forever     2017-04-10   06:30:20  IST  Raghu V

There is probably no way to understand a girl. Men, for thousands of years, have been making failed attempts to crack a girl’s mind. But all those efforts are meant to be gone in vain. Got to agree that a boyfriend cannot really read what is going on in his girl’s mind he can still try to impress her in many ways. He can still make her happy in numerous ways. Remember, it’s highly impossible to understand her when she is unhappy. So, the only way to tackle her mood swings is keeping her in all happy mood. If you don’t want to lose the relationship with her…just don’t forget the following things.

She wants you to be a part of her world and her family. A relationship just doesn’t mean a woman is coming into a family, it also makes a man a member of woman’s family. So, it is more than a responsibility to treat her family as your own. If you pay respect and concern to her family, it makes you a complete family man in her eyes. This builds up your relationship with her even more stronger. In fact, it cements a permanent place for you not just in her heart, but also in you in law’s hearts.

#2) Call her at random times :

How bored it is when you follow a regular pattern in calling her. Why would it thrill her if she was expecting a call from you ? She loves surprises in everything from you. So, change the time pattern. Call her all of sudden at random times. This unexpected call will thrill her and give her a sense that her boyfriend’s cares her all the time, he is not just playing like a puppet on a fixed schedule like someone has forced him.

#3) Ask her how the day has gone :

She has a tired day in college or at work .. she is exhausted. All that she needs now is a caring voice asking her about how the day has gone for her. Is she okay with the day, has she been into any hard moments during the day and what could someone offer her if help is needed. Who should do this ? Of course, she expects such care and concern from a man, whom she wants to spend life with. So, when ever you are texting or calling her, make sure you are making an attempt to know what she is up to everyday.

#4) Don’t lift every call when she is with you :

Even if you are with your friend, imagine how irritating it looks if he/she is attending every phone call instead of spending the limited time talking to you. So, have a clear perception .. if you lift every unnecessary call when she is around you, she too feel annoyed. Her mind will run through the thoughts “Why this idiot has called me here when he wants to talk with someone else on phone but not with me”?. It happens with you too, if she is doing the same right ?

#5) Don’t show you anger :

What hurts a girls the most ? It’s of course the anger coming from the man she loves. Never, ever try to show your anger or masculine power in front. She would never feel secured with you if you are performing such acts. Don’t even try to be rude with her. You may not have any intention of showing supremacy and was just reacting to the circumstances but it sounds like male supremacy to her. One can’t change her perception. Neither one can judge her perception wrong. It is how the world is.

#6) Don’t keep secrets – be transparent :

You know what makes her disrespect you ? Your dishonesty. Be straight to her. Be transparent and be less secretive. You may have committed a big mistake, if you did tell her, don’t hide it. Explain her the circumstances behind it and make her aware how weak were you at that point of time to do something like that. If not she, who would understand you in better way? You need not have any hesitance in front of her. Tell her that she has the final call.

#7) Listen to her when she is speaking :

It would sound silly or funny, she wants you to listen whenever she is speaking. She doesn’t like you not paying attention. Listen to her, observe her while she is telling you something. You should always be a great listener when she is with you. Not even good is enough, you should be accurately a great listener. It makes her feel you like a diplomatic and loyal thing to her. Nothing like rude or generalizing but girls are attention seekers. Got it ?

#8) Dress smart :

Don’t take her for granted just because she has already fallen for you. It doesn’t mean you need not impress her anymore with your attire and looks. You still have to impress her with your styling. Dress well and good. Ask her how she likes to see you. After all, you are maintaining your looks solely for her right ? Most of the girls love seeing her man in formals. Ask her what she loves ? Formals or casuals ?

#9) Remember important dates :

This is most important to remember. Yes, you got to remember all the important dates if you really want to keep her happy. When you both met for the first time ? When you are she proposed ? When did you kiss for the first time ? Her birthday ? You relationship anniversary, your marriage anniversary if you have got married and all other important dates are to stored in you mobile calendar. Keep an alarm or remember them manually .. do what ever, never dare to forget any date that counts in your relationship.

#10) Compliment her and tell her how important she is :

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Girls like compliments and gifts. Don’t they ? They of course love receiving compliments from a man she loves the most. Not just that, she even loves knowing how important she is in his life. Girls don’t really get bored listening to such things no matter how many times you repeat. Explain her how much she means in your life. How you have changed as a person after she arrived into your life, in what ways she made your life exciting and how you are going to treat her life long .. explain all these things wholeheartedly. This will give her all the happiness in the world.