గర్ల్ ఫ్రెండ్ కోపంగా ఉన్నప్పుడు అస్సలు చేయకూడని 15 పనులు   15 Things You Shouldn’t Do When She Is Angry     2017-05-02   04:54:19  IST  Raghu V

Many say that anger adds beauty to a woman. Not so true but there are more chances of women getting anger than a man. Why it is like that ? Well, there may be mood swings in charge which have already pissed off her and your little act is seen like a big blunder for no reason. It happens. After all anger is just another human emotion. She expresses her love and also her anger. If she is short tempered, you need not be. A well built relationship between two human beings shouldn’t get destroyed by some moments in anger. So, dear men, here are 15 basic things you shouldn’t do when she is angry with you.

1- Don’t compare her with others. Never explain her what your mother, sister or any of your’s female friend would have done under the same circumstances. This will just increase her BP by miles speed.

2- Don’t judge her at the very moment. She can assume you in many negative ways. She isn’t going to listen when you are judging. Judging her when she is angry is nothing adding some pepper on wound.

3- Don’t post any quote on Facebook which is indirectly or directly hitting her. This will only ruin relationships. You are never going to win her love with such acts.

4- Don’t text her immediately she finished the argument. There are men who forget to raise some points in the argument but when they forget to do so, they just add those points in a long written text.

5- Don’t include her family into any argument and when she is angry. If you include her family into this by referring any incident related to her family, it will make things even more worse.

6- Don’t use this sentence quite often “It’s your fault. It’s completely your fault”. Let her know if there is any mistake only when she is in such presence of mind where she can realize her mistakes.

7- Don’t get sarcastic. More than a straight arrow, the sarcastic comment you pass when some one is angry increases the heat. Please, don’t be over smart.

8- Do’t complain to her friends. Just don’t dare do that. If you complain her behavior with her friends or family, she will start hating you without any second thought.

9- Don’t be over silent. If she is attacking you without any mistake on your side, try to handle it and defend it in a neat and clean manner. But don’t sit idle as if you are just seeing a dog bark.

10- Don’t vanish from the premises. If you care, eat her words but don’t vanish from the circumstances and premises. If you do so by skipping, you are building a huge space between you and her.

11- Don’t take your frustration out on any living or non living thing. It makes your relation weak. Don’t carry your anger on others.

12- Don’t act like you want to take her for granted. Like “It’s my mistake to be in relationship with you. It’s a poor call from my side. You don’t deserve me” and so on. You are just finishing off everything by such statements.

13 – Don’t ignore her at that moment. Pay attention, listen to her properly so that you can answer in a better way. Your ignorance will hurt her more and to that level where wants to avoid you in complete.

14- Don’t try to preach. Don’t act as if she is immature and your are one with maturity and better understanding. Let her cool down a bit so that you can narrate your side of the story.

15- Don’t plan a revenge. She would use some un-parliamentary words, she would curse you, call you a piece of shit and what ever. If she loves you, need not ask for an apology. She will herself run to you after self review. So, don’t plan a revenge on her. She is our lady, need not fire back.