అమ్మాయికి ప్రపోజ్ చేసేముందు ఈ 15 విషయాలు గుర్తుపెట్టుకోండి   15 Things To Remember Before Your Propose Your Love     2017-05-09   07:39:13  IST  Raghu V

What is the hardest and clueless time in a boy / man’s life ? Arguably it is that time when he thinks of expressing his love for that one girl who sounds and looks like a soulmate. Men feel nervous, worried, tensed and weird during that specific time. Heart beat fastens in uncertainty. Thousands of thoughts, million reasons to stay worried and billion dreams, all at once. He dreams a dream life with his dream girl. What if she rejects ? What if she starts behaving rude with me ? Will my proposal ruin everything in between us? All these questions eat up the brain. So, here we are presenting 15 most useful things a man should remember before his plans of proposing his lady love.

* Take the right time. A right time in the sense, when you are close enough to propose her, when you are sure that she won’t go harsh in her reply even in no acceptance.

* Plan you proposal. Don’t make any hurried and improper proposal. Before you do, you got to plan what to speak, how much to speak, where to speak and where to end.

* Relive the memories. What could really create an impression for you in her mind ? Not your doings ? If you have given her some beautiful memories, refer them while you propose.

* Choose a best place for proposing. It could be the fist place you have seen her, the place you met each other for the first time, the place where she spends her favorite time or any other special place.

* Plan a gift. It need not be costly unlike popular belief. Plan something special, which can touch her heart and emotions but no the mind which can calculate the financial stuff.

* Dress at your best. But don’t be weird. You have to be special but in certain limits. Girls do like men in classy attire. Dress like a man, not like a boy.

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* Before you start proposing, tell her that you aren’t expecting any consequences like facing avoid, insult, taking for granted or something on the similar lines. Tell her that this proposal shouldn’t harm the bonding.

* Don’t be plain in your proposal. Just don’t be flat and predictable. Don’t use templates for proposal. Why you should be a typical boy on one of the most important days in your life ?

* Don’t be too dramatic. You aren’t a film hero and she isn’t your heroine. Don’t be melodramatic. Come to the point straightly. Express yourself in a simple but attractive way.

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* Explain your experiences in love. How you felt for the first time seeing her, talking to her, winning her friendship. Tell why and how she is special for you. Explain why only she is close to your hear in this world.

* It may be too early but you should even narrate what in which way your love story will go if she accepts. Tell how and in what way she will be the part of your life. Explain her importance in your life.

* Don’t force your feelings on her. Please don’t do that. You have feelings for her. She may have the same or not. Understand her feelings in what every way they come.

* Be prepared for everything. A positive reply or a negative one. Plan your ways to cope up if anything goes wrong. Hope it should be happy start but don’t expect only one result. Prepare yourself mentally to face anything.

* Neither you should underestimate yourself nor you should boast yourself. Be honest, as good as you can. Only your honesty will win her heart and not any other thing.

* Don’t react if she is not okay for proposal. Respect her verdict. Don’t bother her giving signs of turning into an obsessed man. You should look like someone who is loving her but not like someone who is in some sort of addiction. There is huge difference between love and obsession.